There is another catagory of bully who is more insidious. The Little Hitler who only wants you in the Brown Shirts for you to do his dirty work. They use rhetoric instead of logic. They use threats instead of reason. They use coercion instead of compassion. They use the Book instead of their brains.
They do not read your words, listen to your voice, attempt to meet your needs, grasp or understand your desires. And THEY do it all in your name.
Who are they? If you need to ask then you are part of the problem.